Customs, courtesies display of respect Published June 1, 2007 By Chief Master Sgt. Arvin Davis 379th Air Expeditionary Wing command chief SOUTHWEST ASIA -- As we go about our daily lives, we get busy and, at times, forget who we are dealing with on the receiving end of our conversations - people, leaders, Airmen, Soldiers, Sailors and Marines. We've all suffered bouts of selective amnesia, so I'd like to offer a quick thought ... common courtesies start with me. It's people, who care a great deal about our profession and are passionate to make things happen. It's leaders, pushing forward to make our base a better place to live and work. It's Airmen, Soldiers, Sailors and Marines proud of being a part of something bigger than themselves - the Global War on Terrorism. So, as a team, let's remember to always show the proper respect, regardless of rank or position. Here's a few reminders: The salute, a quick exchange we do on a daily basis, is not a symbol of inferiority, but a symbol of mutual respect. Enlisted professionals must never shun this opportunity and always initiate a sharp, crisp salute. Our officer corps must always return that same courtesy - one sharp salute deserves another. Addressing senior members as "sir" or "ma'am" or standing up when approached emanates a strong message, "I'm a professional." If senior members don't allow those traditional courtesies to go unchecked; you've earned them along with others gone before you. Let's not forget the art of tactfully approaching and correcting individuals not meeting standards of behavior and appearance. Approach each encounter with the intent of mentoring, not demeaning, and when individuals choose to take to low road, then shift into the fine-tuning mode. Remember, approaching someone doing the right things is even more satisfying and the best thing about those opportunities is they are readily available around every corner; take advantage of them. So, before you render a salute, approach or meet our most senior and junior team members, remind yourself - "Common courtesies start with me" - and you'll do just fine ... Every Airman a Leader!